Imposing?

As a van lifer, everything is different, and it's obvious from everyday activities like going to the bathroom, showering, cooking, and even hanging out with friends. An interesting phenomenon I've noticed, which might be common among other van lifers, is the feeling that at times I may be imposing my presence on someone. It's never pleasant to feel as if people pity you, because that's not the sentiment you want to evoke. Living out of my van has always been a choice, not a circumstance. This is something I've tried hard to communicate to most people I meet, who might otherwise get the wrong impression. It's quite insulting when people look down on me and feel the need to offer me things or feed me because I live in a van.The van life lifestyle has also created a significant barrier for me, one that isn't easy to break down. Whenever I'm invited to someone's house, I almost always bring something to contribute, ensuring that I don't appear empty-handed. I dislike the idea of arriving without offering something in return. This stems from a fear of being perceived as a mooch or reinforcing the notion that I'm in dire need of help, simply by showing up and seemingly expecting assistance. My aim is to be seen as self-sufficient and to contribute positively to any gathering or situation I'm part of. It’s an odd insecurity that has grown over the years… id blame it on living out of cars.

This lifestyle choice, driven by a desire for freedom and simplicity, often leads to misunderstandings. The reality is that van living embodies a sense of adventure and independence that's hard to find in more conventional lifestyles. It's about embracing minimalism and finding joy in the little things. This path I've chosen isn't about necessity but about experiencing life on my own terms. Understanding and respecting this choice is something I hope more people will come to do.